Pro's and Con's of Suicide??

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Permalink Reply by GreatScott on October 10, 2010 at 10:59pm

I appreciate that alot brother. More than you know. See you wouldnt be able to get our name out if you mad ethe wrong decision, we couldnt work together...I got alotta big things comin...I have quite a few tracks I could let ya listen to if you want..

Nick James said:

Much love. I was just blasting ya'll to Basement Beats who did all of nellys' stuff. I work with Mr. Beamin so appreciatthe support. I'm gonna try to get your music out there but i you have any garbage to throw for free i'd love to hear it. I like your shit. But big ups for caring.

SHX said:

Bro, I dont know your situation at all. Ive seen you on here a few times..Seem like one of the only people on here who dont bullshit. But from reading these other posts...I'm sure your daughters is the main thing you live for you should just work at being apart of their lives even though you wont have them all time they'll still have there father and you'll have something to look forward to when seeing them man...Im sure those who DO care about who would be affected by your decision...

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Permalink Reply by Mac Thunder on October 10, 2010 at 11:25pm

This is the martini, last shot's for you or me...

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Permalink Reply by Dr. Haze on October 10, 2010 at 11:37pm

The people that are Pro' on this cant really say. no to be fucked up.

But live life man theres a better place then what is at hand now. If its raining dont complain about the puddle.

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Permalink Reply by Nick James on October 10, 2010 at 11:48pm

Thats the idea. Thanks for all the positive reimbursement. Ya'll postponed it for atleast a while.

Mark said:

well go take out all the money. keep the house unless u cant afford it and u can keep one car and sell the other. she will take u for everything u have got so dont give her the chance.

Nick James said:

Unfortunately yeah. The house and cars are in my name but from what i've found out all that is takin a difovce.

Mark said:

do u guys have a joint checking or savings?

Nick James said:

My wife took em. She's leaving to go 4 hours north so i have no contact with my family. That drives me crazy.

Mark said:

how were ur daughters taken from u? im guessin in court but i wanted to make sure before i said somethin

Nick James said:

Just lost my dad and uncle to cancer. I feel you there. My life consisted of my 2 daughters and they have officially been taken from me on top of my house that i paid for. Now i have to pay for everything on top of paying for me. Hopefully insurance payse Buku bucks of tops or i'll be even worse off than before. But sorry to hear about your fam. I know that shit aint cool.

Kellie Koll said:

As someone who has lost a sister & mother to cancer both wanted to live so much! & you are ready to take your life! It is definately a cowards way out! Man up, deal with whatever issues you have & start living ya life instead of taking it!

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Permalink Reply by Nick James on October 11, 2010 at 12:01am

Much love man. Send em at me whenever. But Basement beats said he wanted to hear some of ya'll stuff so i'm dropping it to him as soon as i get a chance. I told him to check ya'll out on Soundclick.

SHX said:

I appreciate that alot brother. More than you know. See you wouldnt be able to get our name out if you mad ethe wrong decision, we couldnt work together...I got alotta big things comin...I have quite a few tracks I could let ya listen to if you want..

Nick James said:

Much love. I was just blasting ya'll to Basement Beats who did all of nellys' stuff. I work with Mr. Beamin so appreciatthe support. I'm gonna try to get your music out there but i you have any garbage to throw for free i'd love to hear it. I like your shit. But big ups for caring.

SHX said:

Bro, I dont know your situation at all. Ive seen you on here a few times..Seem like one of the only people on here who dont bullshit. But from reading these other posts...I'm sure your daughters is the main thing you live for you should just work at being apart of their lives even though you wont have them all time they'll still have there father and you'll have something to look forward to when seeing them man...Im sure those who DO care about who would be affected by your decision...

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Permalink Reply by fuzzy on October 11, 2010 at 12:03am

It would help to change your name. It's like you are setting your destination to death. That is how I see it. You can make anything into anything if you try hard enough. Obviously you have had your mind on this for some time now? How old are you? I mean, I don't think suicide is the coward's way out, I think it is a bad decision, which happens to be the ultimate one. Thing is about bad decisions and maybe we could call it sin, is that we can change our minds if it wasn't the right thing, and find something better. With suicide, you are only joining the world, and screwing yourself because you don't have that chance of changing your mind, you are dead. You not only leave behind your kids, you curse their lives. Get around some people that love, and get out of your HEAD! I am the youngest of 12 kids, making 6 boys and 6 girls. I HAD an older sister who was beautiful, funny, and smart. She shot herself in the head when she was 32 because both her husbands were abusive. I personally know that the people she knew, could definitely use some of her knowledge today :( And I'm going against the other votes and saying DON'T DO IT. Peace

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Permalink Reply by Nick Ritter on October 11, 2010 at 12:16am

Your friends and family will be crushed and may even think it is there fault. I personally think it is pretty selfish because it affects you the least and everyone else a lot more. To be honest I weigh your reasons again and really try and see if that is the best decision.

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Permalink Reply by quinn gardna on October 11, 2010 at 12:20am

dude are you a teenage girl? and my best friend killed himself... he didnt fuckin say a word about it and i talked to him 10 mintues before he blew a hole in his heart.. u think you got it bad? there are kids in different countries being molested everyday by multiple people. havin no food or parents seing murder everyday. if your seriously considering suicide then i suggest you not do it on a tech n9ne forum.. speak to your fam, your girl, your boys, a fuckin psych doctor.. because thats fuckin stupid.. you asked for our opinion, well your gettin it.. im sure some where out there some one loves you and they will feel the way i will after my boy killed himself. i dont wanna come on this site again sein somethin that makes me feel like shit when i come here to talk bout good music that makes me happy.. fuckin pisses me off

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Permalink Reply by GreatScott on October 11, 2010 at 2:04am

Ive got my WORST shit on soundclick lol..I'll send you some good ones

Nick James said:

Much love man. Send em at me whenever. But Basement beats said he wanted to hear some of ya'll stuff so i'm dropping it to him as soon as i get a chance. I told him to check ya'll out on Soundclick.

SHX said:

I appreciate that alot brother. More than you know. See you wouldnt be able to get our name out if you mad ethe wrong decision, we couldnt work together...I got alotta big things comin...I have quite a few tracks I could let ya listen to if you want..

Nick James said:

Much love. I was just blasting ya'll to Basement Beats who did all of nellys' stuff. I work with Mr. Beamin so appreciatthe support. I'm gonna try to get your music out there but i you have any garbage to throw for free i'd love to hear it. I like your shit. But big ups for caring.

SHX said:

Bro, I dont know your situation at all. Ive seen you on here a few times..Seem like one of the only people on here who dont bullshit. But from reading these other posts...I'm sure your daughters is the main thing you live for you should just work at being apart of their lives even though you wont have them all time they'll still have there father and you'll have something to look forward to when seeing them man...Im sure those who DO care about who would be affected by your decision...

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Permalink Reply by Tyler on October 11, 2010 at 2:10am

suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem bro. the fact that you're contemplating it tells me that you're not sure if its the right choice. if you act on it, you are making a permanent decision man. by not acting on it, you leave yourself the option to work things out. by staying alive you remain in control, but once you're gone its over man. I vote no for sure. there are plenty of things on this world you can find joy in man, whether it be music, your daughters, anything.

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Permalink Reply by Roy Razor on October 11, 2010 at 2:16am

Dude, you speakin' so real...

Ahiggity Diggity said:

Suicide is self centered??? come on now, if your having suicidal thoughts and nobody in your life is doing shit to help you out with it except for make things worse, then they deserve to suffer from your death as far as I'm concerned. As far as I'm concerned all I see in today's society is self centeredness, everyone only cares about how popular they can get and never offer to help anyone out with anything. It's always you have to go and speak to them, rather than they come to speak to you because they are so much better than you... then someone who never fitted in and hates living so much is catergorized as being self centered??? I never knew we had to care about how the self centered people felt about us committing suicide, so I guess we better not do it because after all their feelings are more important than ours... sorry about the rant anyways... I just needed to let off some steam..

Anyway on the whole suicide thing Nick, I'm not going to sit here and tell you "don't do it, you have more to live for" because in the end, I feel it's your choice whether or not you want to go through with it. But I am going to ask... do you feel that it cannot get any better than what it is at now? Is there no chance of improvement or change? Is everything in your life at the absolute lowest point that you feel it will never ever get any better? you should take these into consideration before you go through with it because there is a chance of things getting better if you try to change things around, but if you feel that it will never get better no matter what you do... well the choice is yours. Anyway it's nice seeing people supporting you on the internet, but it's a shame that you don't have people like that in your day to day life

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Permalink Reply by Ryan on October 11, 2010 at 2:19am

Bro theres no pros to it, i been through ive tried it multiple times it aint worth it man, it sounds cliche but its a permanent solution to a temporary problem, life WILL get better bro, plus suicide is a selfish act, think about those people who love u and care aboit u, u dont want to put them through that pain and loss. Its ur decision but im just sayin man nothing good will come out of it please rethink it

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