Ok give me your opinion on this
So I know this site is supposed to be Strange Music related but fuck it everyone else posts random shit so its my turn lol. I want your guy's input on this situation.
So I have known this girl for about 2 years, we have dated before and actually were engaged at one point. Things didn't work out between us so we broke up. We dated again later down the road but that didn't last long due to my feelings constantly changing for some reason. We have always had this connection and its hard to explain we have always been "fuck buddies" lol. Well recently I have felt that I want to get it another shot with her, she broke up with her bf to be with me. We were together for about a day or so and she tells me she got back with her ex bf. I was pissed but like the idiot i am I kept trying. She broke up with him again and told me that she wanted to be single for a while, and I understand that. Well now she's just being a super bitch to me and we aren't even together. Apparently one of her ex's is being a total asshole towards her and she's pretty much saying fuck the world. Im trying to help her out but she's just blocking me out. Any advice?
So I have known this girl for about 2 years, we have dated before and actually were engaged at one point. Things didn't work out between us so we broke up. We dated again later down the road but that didn't last long due to my feelings constantly changing for some reason. We have always had this connection and its hard to explain we have always been "fuck buddies" lol. Well recently I have felt that I want to get it another shot with her, she broke up with her bf to be with me. We were together for about a day or so and she tells me she got back with her ex bf. I was pissed but like the idiot i am I kept trying. She broke up with him again and told me that she wanted to be single for a while, and I understand that. Well now she's just being a super bitch to me and we aren't even together. Apparently one of her ex's is being a total asshole towards her and she's pretty much saying fuck the world. Im trying to help her out but she's just blocking me out. Any advice?
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Permalink Reply by Sean (Petaluma Street Team) on -
lol why should i delete it?
DoomMan said:then you should know the limits to what you can say, if she said she loves you then i think it would all work out fine for you in the end, just make sure you delete this thread after wards
Sean said:i dont think scaring her like that is possible. i know her waay too well, i probobly know her better than she does to be honest.
DoomMan said:just tell her you love her too (if you do) and tell her youre here for her always blah blah but dont over do it. too much might scare her
Sean said:yeah and sometimes she says no and sometimes she says kill me, and now she just texted me saying,"i love you?"
DoomMan said:have you asked her if theres anything you can do for her?
Sean said:she says she has constant suicide thoughts
DoomMan said:ask her what she wants, theres no point trying if she doesnt want you anymore. or tell her if she wants you out of her life then you will understand and let her go, maybe the possibilty of you not trying anymore will make her realise losing you is a possibility and she will cling on to you.
Sean said:she's not with him anymore
DoomMan said:we love the ones that hurt us and hurt the ones that love us, hes treating her like shit and is taking it out on you, it happens all the time. give her some space and she will see things clearly. she might need to hit rock bottom before you swoop in, just dont give up.
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Permalink Reply by Sean (Petaluma Street Team) on
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yeah true lol
DoomMan said:a few reasons come to mind, she might read it, and all your work would be destroyed in an instant, plus my rep as a cunt will deminish.
Sean said:lol why should i delete it?
DoomMan said:then you should know the limits to what you can say, if she said she loves you then i think it would all work out fine for you in the end, just make sure you delete this thread after wards
Sean said:i dont think scaring her like that is possible. i know her waay too well, i probobly know her better than she does to be honest.
DoomMan said:just tell her you love her too (if you do) and tell her youre here for her always blah blah but dont over do it. too much might scare her
Sean said:yeah and sometimes she says no and sometimes she says kill me, and now she just texted me saying,"i love you?"
DoomMan said:have you asked her if theres anything you can do for her?
Sean said:she says she has constant suicide thoughts
DoomMan said:ask her what she wants, theres no point trying if she doesnt want you anymore. or tell her if she wants you out of her life then you will understand and let her go, maybe the possibilty of you not trying anymore will make her realise losing you is a possibility and she will cling on to you.
Sean said:she's not with him anymore
DoomMan said:we love the ones that hurt us and hurt the ones that love us, hes treating her like shit and is taking it out on you, it happens all the time. give her some space and she will see things clearly. she might need to hit rock bottom before you swoop in, just dont give up.
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Permalink Reply by Blizzum on -
i dont mean to sound like an ass but one of your first mistakes is coming to the internet for help. i find it best if you fallow your gut on these type of things...or you can get some info from other girls that you know and trust...girls know girls the best...when it all comes down to it. its your choice on what you do.
if that makes any sense lol
lol im all doped up on meds so it might now but yea......
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Permalink Reply by Alex on -
Sean said:she says she has constant suicide thoughts
DoomMan said:ask her what she wants, theres no point trying if she doesnt want you anymore. or tell her if she wants you out of her life then you will understand and let her go, maybe the possibilty of you not trying anymore will make her realise losing you is a possibility and she will cling on to you.
Sean said:she's not with him anymore
DoomMan said:we love the ones that hurt us and hurt the ones that love us, hes treating her like shit and is taking it out on you, it happens all the time. give her some space and she will see things clearly. she might need to hit rock bottom before you swoop in, just dont give up.
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Permalink Reply by Dukecityspecialist on -
actually i was thinking the same thing as richard
Cole Payan [AVCP333] said:dont listen to this guy. im sure that tattoo of his is not helping his girl situation
richard roy isaacson III said:leave her alone she is probably fucking someone else killa not to be fucked up but just dip out the situation
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Permalink Reply by Stephen Davey on -
put it this way been with bitch's like that an once they start the fuck the world thing there just attention seeking bitch's stop chasing her an wait for her to start chaseing you my bro
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Permalink Reply by PJ on -
just be there for her. thats all you can do. shel come around. girls like a guy they can talk to about shit for a while without actuallly being involved in a relationship with them, and it seems like rite now your that guy lol. just give it time.
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Permalink Reply by World Famous Dirty 530 on -
Leave her alone and let her sort out what she has to. If it's meant to be it will be
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Permalink Reply by Sean (Petaluma Street Team) on
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you guys are good ppl. Im just gonna sit here and wait, not gonna talk to her at all, if she wants to talk to me then she can but im not gonna go out of my way to try to have a conversation with her
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Permalink Reply by World Famous Dirty 530 on
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Thats whats up
Sean said:you guys are good ppl. Im just gonna sit here and wait, not gonna talk to her at all, if she wants to talk to me then she can but im not gonna go out of my way to try to have a conversation with her
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Permalink Reply by Justin Moore on -
DUDE you be like in tha some mud i am in, juss keep ya head up bro. shit happens for a reason dont push it or you will lose tha shot to ever be close again. like everyone is saying juss give it some time. if she "loves" you she will be there trust that. i have been with my gurl for like almost 2 years now and we broke up like 5 months ago and guees who came back? all bucuse i showed her that i could wait it out. juss dont worry about her worry about your self. get what you need to get and do what you need to do. hope that help a lil bit bro
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