lil.rag_74 said:is B*tch. sorry but thats my opinion! and i gotta tell The Dirty 530 that Strange music is not a b*tch ass place fo anyone to put his/her ass down and start jumpin into that! u gotta be strange & sick to sign strange music!
teach yur brotha how to scrap and he'll
be one of the hardest mother fukkaz in his school.....
Amanda said:OH shyt you have no idea!
I raised my lil brother who haz been diagnosed with autism and adhd....YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW SELF DESTRUCTIVE THESE KIDZ ARE....you think slapping in the face iz bad? lmfao. U have no slight inkling of wut these kidz do to themselvez. I spanked the shyt outta him for doin all the crazy shyt hez done...but you best believe he respected me bcuz i treated him like a person...he treated my parentz like shyt but he sure listened to me...kidz don't know rite from wrong [esp kidz with autism and adhd]...idk if my daughter haz the same problemz in her head so why punish her for sumthing she can't even control? Kidz with autism have so much anger and rage itz unbelieveable. You wuld freak the fucc out if you seen wut these kidz can do to themselvez and to the onez around. I see spanking a 3 or 4 year old but, not a year old child. Y? BCUZ THEY HAVE NO IDEA OF SELF CONTROL. They don't know consequencez. THEY CAN'T EVEN TALK. lmfao. I see it az....wen they can comprehend wut I'm saying and answer me with real wordz...thatz wen they get spankingz.
TechNette said:first of all i don't beat my child for evey little thing and second of all I WILL BE DAMNED IF I LET MY CHILD PUT HIS HANDS ON ME AND HE BETTER KILL ME DEAD IF HE SLAP ME IN THE FACE. WE THINK TOO DIFFERENT TO BE HAVING THIS CONVERSATION . IT'S MAKING ME MAD. YOUR GONNA BE THAT WUMMON AT THE SUPERMARKET LOOKING DAZED AND CONFUSED BECAUSE YOUR DAUGHTER JUST BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF YOU. SLAPPING SOMEONE IN THE FACE IS ONE OF THE WORST FORM OF DISRESPECT THAT CAN BE DONE TO SOMEONE AND YOUR SITTING HERE TELLING ME THAT YOU THINK THAT IT'S OK FOR YOUR DAUGHTER TO SLAP YOU IN THE FACE. YOU NEED TO REALIZE THAT YOUR DAUGHTER WOULD BE NOTHING, LITERALLY, WITHOUT YOU AND HAS TO DO WHAT THE FUCK YOU TELL HER. SOME PARENTS HAVE BEEN VERY SUCCESSFUL IN RAISING THEIR CHILDREN WITHOUT DOLING OUT A BEATING, BUT IF YOU WANT TO DO IT YOU NEED TO CHANGE YOUR MINDSET. WHEN YOUR DAUGHTER GOES TO TEST YOU THAT FIRST TIME AND HIT YOU IN THE FACE AND YOU ARE FIRM ENOUGH WITH HER IT IS OVER. BEFORE MY SON WAS ONE HE HIT ME AND I WAS LIKE HE'S TOO YOUNG FOR THAT AND NOW WHAT HE TRIES MY ASS EVERY DAY. YOU DON'T HAVE TO BEAT HER YOU NEED TO CHANGE HOW YOU THINK THOUGH BCUZ KIDS ARE WAY TO SMART FOR YOU TO EVEN HAVE THE MINDSET THAT IT IS OKAY. I CAN SEE IT NOW. FINE, DON'T BEAT HER, BUT YOU NEED TO LEARN WHAT IS OK AND WAT IS NOT OK. YOU JUST GONNA LET YOUR CHILD DO SOMETHING SELF DESTRUCTIVE OR JUST DESTRUCTIVE BCUZ 'OH THEY'RE GONNA DO IT ANYWAY, THEY'LL BE SAFER IF THEY DO IT AT HOME' THAT IS THE STUPIDEST THING I HAVE EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE. GIVING THEM PRIVILEDGES TO DO SOMETHING THAT THEY SHOULD NOT BE DOING ANYMOTHERFUCKING WAY IS STUPID THEY DON'T DO IT JUST AT HOME OR JUST WHERE YOU TELL THEM TO DO IT. YOU SAID IT YOURSELF YOU DIDN'T STOP SMOKING WEED OUTSIDE YOUR HOUSE. THAT IS SOME BULLSHIT. THESE NEW TIMES ARE FOR THE DOGS AND THE FEMALE ONES AT THAT. GOOD LUCK WITH THAT BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER BUT THINK ABOUT IT.
Amanda said:That may be the case for you....
This izn't about whoz had the worst life...itz about wen to spank your child....and comparing it to capital punishment iz juz wayyy extreme really.
Beating your child for everything bad they do like hit you in your face izn't rite....
But hey, itz your child to raise.
I'm juz stating my opinon...nd using the word 'beating' izn't very appropriate....timez have changed.
TechNette said:I didn't say beating or not beating your kids is going to make a difference in who you are or that beating or not beating your kids is the problem with the world. you don't even realize the struggles i've had to live thru in my life . the simple fact that u HAD parents in your life and the worst they did to you was give you a beating sounds gravy to me. i wish i had that. u never had to climb out of a third story apartment building window at the age of three shimmy down a drain pipe and beg for food for your brothers and sister that were locked in there room have you? i did and that was just the mild shit i've been thru. if you really wanna know i'll send you a message. but i never let ANYTHING in my life that has happened to me make me crazy. and i LOVE me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! to me when i say children need to be beat sometimes that is AFTER ALL ELSE FAILS.
Amanda said:We all live in a pretty shitty world....therez ALOT of fucc'd up thingz in the world...like this guy in clevland, ohio had 11 womenz bodiez in hiz baccyard....iz that becuz hiz parentz didn't punish him enuff? HIGHLY UNLIKEYLY.
ND WHOOOAAA you went from beating your kidz to kidz killing their parentz for telling them to do their homework...I'VE READ ALOT about psychology, psychiatry, and mental illnesses in people...I've read alot of the mental state of those type of people AND MORE THAN PROLLY 90 percent the majority of them iz cuz they had physical, mental, emotional, and sexual abuse....nd not becuz they didn't beat their child enuff...if anything he killed her becuz she fucc wit hiz head or....sum shyt. There iz A BIG difference between the 1920z and NOW. Men were supieror in that era...a man culd beat hiz child and hiz wife maybe even kill them tell them a sketchy story and HEZ FREE. Why? Cuz they gave them the benifit of the doubt...they were more smarter...stronger.
My dad beat me...but, I ain't out here killing someone or selling kidz crack....I've been threw alot of shyt but, it made me into a better mother and fiancee...I'm a lil fucc'd in the head from wut people hav done to me but, it makez me rethink how I'll raise my daughter. Shez a god daym handful....she haz hit me...SHE DON'T KNOW ANY BETTER shez juz 16 monthz...I CAN'T BEAT HER till she stopz. Kidz are kidz...
My parentz believed to do wut you said....you have to hit your kidz to get respect....I juz grew up to hate my dad and wuz soooo scared of him...if anything I HAD NO RESPECT FOR HIM cuz he didn't treat me like a human being. I don't hit him so why shuld he disrespect me by beating me? You daym rite if my daughter setz fire to my house i will spank her ass with a belt. But, thatz even REALLY extreme to even think about your child even doin that...you gotta explain to them wut can happen. You can't expect them to already know wut can playing with matchez can lead to.
TechNette said:WE LIVE IN TWO DIFFERENT WORLDS BABY.
ALEXXX said:thank god we live in a country where its legal to have a difference of opinion.
TechNette said:no disrespect but fuck that. where i'm from there are no children here. the crackheads stand out front of elementary schools to cop their crack from the students. every corner boy looks like they are still suckling. and this year a boy whose mother treated him exactly how you speak beat his mother to death and went back to playing the game with his mothers dead body in the house. all because she asked him to do his homework. then another dude who my uncle knew beat his step father to death with a baseball bat. if you treat your child too nice and then try to be a parent shit ain't working. so i apologize if i seem too harsh but you'll understand when your daughter gets just a little bit older. i love my son of course BUT THIS LITTLE BOY THINKS IT'S FUNNY TO BOUNCE THE REMOTE OFF MY FACE IN MY SLEEP!!!!!!!!! and that's the cute shit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!there are time's this boy has had me CRYING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and i live with my boyfriend AND mother in law and they give me all the help i can possibly ask for and he STILL PUSHES ME TO THE EDGE. and he's not bad..........he is just really really smart. but he needs to get beat sometimes!!!!!!!!!! beat sounds harsh!!!!!!!!!!!! he needs his legs tapped and his hands slapped sometimes.
ALEXXX said:i could understand your point of view only from someone who got treated the same way...umm...the situations that you described...i feel as though if i give my daughter everything that she needs throughout life and im an overall nurturing, caring, good parent those things wont happen. if they ever did though...then yes she would be getting more than..."okay time to go sit in the corner"
but innocence is a great thing to posess.
a child that brings a gun to school, or cusses you out in the fucking grocery store obviously has lost their innocence.
wouldnt you agree?
TechNette said:I DEFINITLEY DISAGREE. IF YOU LOOK BACK IN HISTORY CAPITOL PUNISHMENT IN SCHOOL KEPT THINGS IN LINE. AS SOON AS THEY SAID NO MORE CAPITOL PUNISHMENT VIOLENCE ENT UP. THEN THEY TOLD PARENTS NOT TO BEAT THEIR KIDS AND THE KIDS STARTED BEATING THEIR PARENTS. I SEE IT EVERYDAY KIDS WHIPPING THEIR PARENTS ASSES. I WILL BE DAMNED IF I LET MY SON PUT HIS MOTHERFUCKING HANDS ON ME. I WILL BEAT HIM AND DIAL 911 FOR HIS SIMPLE ASS. SOMETIMES A CHILD NEEDS TO BE BEAT. NOT FOR EVERYTHING BUT THERE ARE SITUATIONS THAT YOU KNOW YOU ARE GONNA WANNA BEAT YOUR CHILD. YOUR CHILD BURNS YOUR KITCHEN DOWN YOU GONNA PUT HIM IN THE CORNER? YOUR CHILD BREAKS YOUR OTHER CHILDS ARM YOU GONNA SEND HIM TO BED EARLY? YOUR CHILD TAKES A GUN TO SCHOOL WHAT U GONNA DO? THESE ARE THINGS KIDS WHO DON'T HAVE DISCIPLINE DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GOOGLE THAT SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ARE YOU A MOTHER? WHEN UR KIDS START CUSSING U OUT IN PUBLIC START A DISCUSSION ABOUT IT SO I CAN TELL U WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ALEXXX said:DEFINITELY DONT AGREE WITH THE BEATINGS. RESPECT... HELLL YEA. but there are other ways besides beatings you can get your child to respect you. i was a badass...but my parents had issues. idk. just do alot of research and be creative. Raising kids takes ALOT more than hitting them. thats NOT goin to work believe me.
TechNette said:well we grew up different. if you teach your kids fear and respect you can get them to listen to you. i bet your parents never randomly showed up at your school to see if you were there. or jumped out on u when u were somewhere u had no busines being. humiliation and public beatings and shit like that. and i may be wild a little bit. but i am a proud mother a happy fiance and i go to school and work EVERYDAY. yeah i wanted to do what i wanted to do but i just got my own shit to do it. been on my own since 16!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Amanda said:Yah thatz true.
but, there iz a thin line between laying down the rulez and being strict to kidz....either way itz torture to them...and they will alwayz do wut they wanna do.
See wen my parentz found out I wuz smoking bud they didn't like it...they punished me....but, they culdn't do much about it cuz I wuz smoking my dadz stash...so they juz pretended I didn't smoke and told me they don't wanna catch me smoking....so they basically let me smoke so I wuldn't get arrested anywhere else...don't mean that I wuzn't smoke publicly so, i still went out and did wut they didn't want me to.
You can't stop kidz...I wuz an idiot but, I did it.
TechNette said:there is a difference between strict and laying down the rules. strict would be making her a nun. laying down the rules is telling the 16 year old girl that no her over 20 underwear model of a bf CANNOT move in their house. and the fact that billy ray introduced them. I BLAME THE PARENTS.
Amanda said:I disagree very much with that...
If her parentz were more strict she wuld be a SLUT.
I wuz a 16 year old...or 17? lol Don't know how old she iz...I did the opposite of wut they told me too.
All these little gurlz are doin these half nudity picz...
Gurlz these dayz are fuccing whoever and wherever...no matter if miley iz showing sum bra and her stomach these lil gurlz are still out fuccin.
TechNette said:LOL. since britney was singing with the Mickey Mouse Club. you see her!!!!! and i'm not going to beat my daughter for acting like that i'm going to have an abortion. think about it. but miley only acts like what her parents LET her act like.
Anghellic Techn9cian[; said:Me, Personally, would beat her black and blue until she died.
Disney DOES hand out coke when you sign... [;
TechNette said:what the fuck is wrong with this little girl. if i had a daughter who acted like this i would lock her ass in a dungeon or she would have to get the FUCK out my motherfucking house. why is it that every bitch from the disney channel never turns out to be rite in the head? it's like disney hands out coke as soon as you sign the contracts.